What's stopping you?

Have you ever been sitting down, relaxing watching television and you see something there that makes you think to yourself I would like that, that’s what I want to do.  Something that is completely different to whatever you would do in normal circumstances.  As soon as this feeling comes, it is followed by a funny feeling in your tummy and you say, nah.  Every so often you think about the picture and still think you would like to do it ,could be living in another country, changing your job, changing your relationship.  What is it that’s stopping you?

There are some people who go out in the world and get what they want.  There are other people who look at them in wonderment, envy or bewilderment.  “How did they do that, what have they got that I haven’t”.  So what is it they have and you haven’t.  Which one are you? If you are reading this article, you are the one asking the questions.

There could be a multitude of different reasons that is stopping, it could be fear of the unknown, the belief that you can’t do it, lack of self esteem or maybe you feel it goes against what you think or feel, or maybe lack of confidence, to name but a few. Do you recognise any of these in yourself?

If you would like to contact me and we can have a chat, please do. e-mail me initially on denise@denisevogel-lifecoach.co.uk