WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR CHRISTMAS

All I want for Christmas is …………

Have you decided what you want?

Have you made your list?

Are you going to do it

From that last paragraph you will realise I am not alluding to presents but yourself, your health, your actions, your LIFE

What changes do you want to make?  If there are no changes that’s fine and you are satisfied with your life.  If there are changes, what are you going to do about them.

First MAKE YOUR LIST – it may be a really really long list. Some of it may be easy, some a bit more difficult but ensure it is something you want to do. A half hearted list is no list at all. Remember small things are good to work to.  Once you have achieved something small, the bigger things become easier.  It is the achievement that is the outcome. It is also great great feeling of success that you will experience

Second – READ YOUR LIST thoroughly and tick everything that you really really want. Check the reality of it. What will it do for you? How will you feel when you do it? Brilliant is the answer you are searching for. Number them in the order that you want them. It may be that you only have one – that’s fine. You can only focus on achieving one thing at a time, the others can be put on the back boiler.

Third – LOOK AT YOUR LIST and work out the options you have for achieving the things on the list. What do you need to do first? What could you do if money were not an issue?  If you could spend all your time to this one thing, what would you do?  What could you do if you did not have to live with the consequences?  What might your friends suggest you do?  If you knew deep down what you should do first, what would it be.  If you were going to have the same conversation with a friend, what you would advise your friend to do?

Fourth – DECIDE what you are going to do next, list your actions.  Put a time and date on completion of the actions.  Don’t make it too soon but ensure it won’t get lost in time.  Make a time-scale, when are you going to actions will take? Will all the actions you have decided achieve exactly what it is you want? Do you need to involve anyone else?  Is there anything that can stop you? Identify this and deal with it.

The last thing is

JUST

DO IT.  There is nothing to stop you – just you.

If you would like to share any of the things you have decided with my by e-mail, please e-mail me. There is often a need to be answerable to someone who is not central to what you want.